“You, Sir, Are a No-Go”
![]() January 14, 2025 Greetings, Meteor readers, For anyone trying to get help while navigating the wildfires in California, we want to point you to this master document of resources, shelters, and distribution hubs created by Sarah Vitti and Bianca Wilson. And if you’re not in the LA area but you’re looking for ways to help, you can see what’s needed here. In today’s newsletter, we tune in to the Pete Hegseth hearing. Plus, some good news for Bad Bunny fans. With love, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONWhen politics and theater collide: Today was the Senate confirmation hearing for Pete Hegseth, who is auditioning to become our next Secretary of Defense on this week’s episode of America’s Next Top Menace. Now normally, a confirmation hearing for a drunken, underqualified, racist TV personality (who’s also an alleged rapist) would be incredibly high stakes. The kind of event that would rivet the nation, that I would halt my entire workday to watch. (In fact, we all did just that a few years ago.) But when you’ve already watched an underqualified, racist, former TV personality (who’s also an alleged rapist!) get elected president twice, you’re probably less likely to drop everything to watch history repeat itself on C-SPAN. And given the new GOP control of the Senate, today felt like a fruitless piece of political theater. ![]() HEGSETH REACHING FOR A POINT TO MAKE AND FINDING NOTHING BUT AIR. (VIA GETTY IMAGES) But it was also necessary. True, the hearings may not prevent Hegseth from getting a job for which he has no aptitude. But if nothing else, the record will show that Hegseth stood in front of a group of senators who confronted him with his utter lack of leadership experience; the allegations of workplace misconduct, sexual assault, and financial mismanagement against him; and the “insufficient” FBI investigation of Hegseth ahead of his nomination. (According to the Washington Post, the FBI did not even interview the woman who accused him of sexual assault in 2017 as part of the vetting process. Sounds familiar.) Some of the harshest questioning came from women senators demanding that Hegseth answer for his “degrading” statements about women in the military. He chose to deny, saying, “I’ve never disparaged women serving in the military.” So to clarify: when he went on a podcast and said “we should not have women in combat roles” and when he wrote in his book “women cannot physically meet the same standards as men,” he didn’t say it in a degrading way. He was merely commenting on the lower standards the military has adopted in order to accommodate women! Sure, Jan. His comments on standards didn’t fly with Senator Tammy Duckworth, who is also a veteran—and, as a retired Lieutenant Colonel, outranks Hegseth. “You say you care about keeping our Armed Forces strong and that you like our Armed Forces' meritocracy,” she told Hegseth. “Then let's not lower the standards for you. You, sir, are a no-go at this station.” AND:
![]()
![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
How the LA Fires Got So Bad So Fast
![]() January 13, 2025 Greetings, Meteor readers, The news from California has been heartbreaking; the Palisades, Eaton, and Hollywood Hills wildfires continue to sweep through the region, destroying entire neighborhoods, displacing thousands of people, and destroying wildlife. We hope all of our LA-based readers are keeping as safe as possible. For anyone looking for a way to help those affected by the fires, please take a look at this list compiled by Mutual Aid Los Angeles Network. In today’s newsletter, we piece together the connection between the California fires and climate change. Plus, your weekend reading list. With love, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONIn the line of fire: The Palisades and Eaton wildfires, along with a smaller fire in the Hollywood Hills, are being called “the most destructive” fires in the history of Los Angeles. So far, five people have been killed and roughly 180,000 people are under evacuation orders in the area. January isn’t peak fire season in California—so how did these particular fires get so bad so fast? The short answer is, for the most part, climate change. The longer answer is just how unseriously people in power are taking climate change. Experts have been saying for years that climate change would continue to exacerbate extreme weather events—hurricanes, fires, lightning storms, droughts, and wild weather swings. In California, those predictions have borne out: Climate change has contributed to hotter and drier weather, making for dangerous wildfire conditions. California’s famous Santa Ana winds are blowing with gusts as high as 100 mph. Add all of that to other consequences of climate change, such as recent dry weather and an “exceptionally wet climate from winter 2023 to spring 2024” (which created younger vegetation that isn’t as fire-resistant), and you have a region primed for a particularly bad fire season. There are other factors besides climate change, too: One scientist, UCLA professor Jon Keeley, told Mother Jones that power line failures, rapid population growth, and loss of fire-blocking vegetation in California have also played a large role in the fast spread of these fires. Finally, there’s California’s under-preparedness in the face of our new “pyrocene” era: There’s been a yearslong firefighter shortage in the state. As the blazes broke out this week, every single LAFD firefighter was asked to call in with their availability, a first in almost 20 years. (That includes those fire brigades composed of incarcerated people who get paid about 74 cents an hour for their labor.) All these factors have contributed to this week’s devastation in LA. What has not played a role are the city’s DEI initiatives—although that didn’t stop some right-wing pundits from claiming otherwise.The right is also placing blame on LAFD Fire Chief Kristin Crowley for prioritizing diverse hiring practices over “filling the fire hydrants properly.” (Just because it’s going to drive me crazy, I need to emphasize that it is not the fire chief’s job to fill the goddamn fire hydrants.) Activists often remind us that all of our struggles are interconnected. A fire in California does not exist in a vacuum; it lives in concert with a number of other political issues—none more so than climate change and how our leaders respond to it…or fail to do so. AND:
![]() PRESIDENTS CLINTON, BUSH, OBAMA, TRUMP, AND BIDEN, ALONG WITH THEIR SPOUSES AND VICE PRESIDENTS GORE, PENCE, AND HARRIS AT THE FUNERAL SERVICE FOR PRESIDENT JIMMY CARTER. (VIA GETTY IMAGES)
![]() WEEKEND READING 📚On being the “other” mother: A woman who chose surrogacy reflects on the thorny relationship it created—and where it left them when tragedy struck. (Electric Literature) On justice deferred: A “horrendous” sexual assault trial in Alaska has been delayed more than 70 times in the last 10 years. Here’s how similar slowdowns have become routine in the state. (ProPublica) On “Mas Fotos”: Bad Bunny’s sixth album has become more than just an album. Julianne Escobedo Shepherd dives into the deeper meanings of the artist’s “textured love letter to Puerto Rico’s Indigenous and homegrown musical styles.” (Hearing Things) ![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
A Graceful Transition of Power
![]() January 7, 2025 Greetings, Meteor readers, LOVE IS ALIVE! Tom Holland and Zendaya are engaged, and for reasons I can’t explain, I am happier for these two strangers than I have been for any of my real-life friends. But also none of my friends have gotten married to anyone as fascinating as Zendaya. Huzzah! ![]() ZENDAYA CASUALLY TAKING HER NEW FIVE-CARAT ENGAGEMENT RING OUT FOR A STROLL. (VIA GETTY IMAGES) In today’s newsletter, we consider the subtle messaging around yesterday’s certification of the 2024 election. Plus, new rules for Meta and new music from Bad Bunny. Waiting for my wedding invitation, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONFull of grace: Yesterday, Vice President Kamala Harris presided over what was for generations a mundane congressional activity: certifying the vote. But this year had a different weight to it, and not because there was another insurrection. Instead, Harris had to hand the country over to white nationalists while rubbing salt in the wound of her own loss. She did so without fanfare or silent protest, with as much grace as anyone could muster, and she was largely praised for it. As Errin Haines wrote in The 19th, in certifying the vote, Harris “made history, this time as a linchpin in the work of restoring our shaken faith in the democratic process.” And while Harris’ handling of the moment is certainly a testament to her fortitude, it was also a reminder of the unmeetable expectations placed on Black women. ![]() SHE ALMOST LET HERSELF FROWN FOR A MILLISECOND. BUT KAMALA HARRIS WILL NOT BE CAUGHT SLIPPIN'. (VIA GETTY IMAGES) People are angry. Women are angry. It is safe to assume that in private, Kamala Harris is angry. But were she to show that very human emotion in even the smallest way, it would undo everything she has worked toward. Kamala Harris doesn’t get to be angry because she has become the avatar for Black women in America in the same way that Barack Obama was an avatar for Black men (although he was allowed some anger, because that is an emotion men have the privilege to express, while Black women must studiously avoid the Angry Black Woman trope). Now this doesn’t mean I wanted her to walk into the chamber and start flipping desks. There is a time and place for decorum. But there’s almost always a way to peacefully fight back. Ask Nancy Pelosi, who in 2020 stood up after Donald Trump’s State of the Union address and tore a physical copy of his speech to pieces. Or Elizabeth Warren, who in 2017 refused to be silenced by her Republican colleagues. (That’s where all those “nevertheless, she persisted” t-shirts came from.) But the rules are and always have been different for the Kamala Harrises of the world, who have been instructed from day one that getting to the top requires a certain degree of “conceal, don’t feel.” For Black women, anger is not a tool that can be used to break the glass ceiling. Instead, their fight can only be composed of, in the approving words of Symone Sanders Townsend yesterday, “grace and grit.” Who is all that grace and grit serving, though? White onlookers? People invested in the status quo? If Black women are forced to conform to the expectation that they can only be gracious, even in the worst and most disheartening circumstances, it just reinforces an ugly but incredibly American idea that Black women must be made to feel small. Even in their own damn House. Yesterday, Kamala Harris provided a masterclass in moving forward even when what you’re walking toward is everything you stand against. And prioritizing the rule of law and the democratic process was, of course, the point: “Today, democracy stood,” she said afterward. Still, the message we should extract from that moment is not, grin and bear it. It’s: Do what you must to live to fight another day. Even if that includes getting angry. AND:
![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
A Violent Start to the Year
![]() January 2, 2025 Howdy, Meteor readers, Welcome back to the grind. I spent the entire holiday break trying to bake sourdough bread, watching videos about sourdough bread, and learning about microbakeries. I’ve pretty much joined a cult. And you? ![]() ONE OF MY FAILED BUT AESTHETICALLY PLEASING LOAVES In today’s newsletter, we look at the common thread running through the mass violence of 2025’s earliest days. Plus, a huge power outage and another layer to the Baldoni/Lively situation. Bulk fermenting, Shannon Melerdough ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONOff to a bad start: 2025 is only two days old but has already seen three mass violence events. Yesterday a veteran in New Orleans drove through a crowd of pedestrians, killing 15 people and injuring 30 more. Hours after that, in Las Vegas, a Green Beret driving a Tesla Cybertruck pulled up to the Trump International Hotel and allegedly triggered an explosion from within the vehicle, injuring seven and killing himself. Later that same night, in Queens, four men opened fire outside a nightclub, wounding ten bystanders, most of them women, in what appears to be an act of gang-related violence. Investigators do not currently have reason to believe the incidents are related; the FBI is calling the New Orleans killing an act of terrorism but has not designated the Las Vegas incident as such. But regardless of motivation, if these crimes weren’t what you talked about all day at work, it’s just another sign that violence in America is now considered something…normal. And as journalist Anand Giridharadas highlighted in his analysis of the events of January 1, one contributing factor we may not be taking seriously enough is the ease and speed with which men are becoming radicalized. In the New Orleans example specifically, the suspect was “inspired” by ISIS, and people who knew him say he had become withdrawn as he “descended into a rabbit hole of radicalization” and anger over the things that had gone awry in his life. (He also allegedly threatened violence against his ex-wife—another common thread among perpetrators of mass violence.) “Part of what makes the crisis facing men so dangerous is the fact that such radicalization pathways exist and are so easily accessible for men who find themselves in free-fall,” Giridharadas writes. “A whole lot of men are lost…and someone needs to figure out how to meet them where they are.” Unfortunately, as he notes, men are being met where they are—online, by violent and extremist movements that promise a return to virility and domination. And, as is evident by the Queens shooting, they’re being embraced by violent groups in real life as well. This theme—that men are being lured toward extremism—is not new, of course. Writers like Liz Plank, Jia Tolentino, and Jonathan Metzl voiced similar concerns throughout 2024 about what Tolentino calls “an era of gendered regression” fueled by ideological divides on things like masculinity, healthcare, gun rights, and bodily autonomy. But their work (and Giridharadas’s point) is a reminder that we can’t talk about these first bloody hours without talking about how men are being weaponized. How we start this year, though, does not have to be the way we continue it. Since we know solutions won’t be pouring out of the White House, let this be the year we dedicate to fortifying our communities and pushing for action. Support local organizations providing mental health to veterans or other at-risk groups. Push for gun reform in your city (and then for your state). Talk to the young men in your life about what they’re consuming online. We’ve got us. AND:
![]()
![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
Ozempic, Voguing and Abortion Bans
Happy final days of December, Meteor readers, We want to thank you for choosing to spend this last year with us. There are a lot of great newsletters out there, and the fact that so many of you are keeping us in your rotation motivates us to keep getting better. (Speaking of better, you can help us improve by filling out this survey if you’re feeling it!) Before we roll into 2025, we wanted to share some of your (and our) favorite Meteor stories and podcast episodes of the year. Enjoy your break, and you can keep up with us here in the meantime. ![]() Rikers Island is one of the nation’s most notorious jails, and incarcerated trans people there are treated especially inhumanely. But during Pride 2024, Mik Bean reports, Rikers was also the site of the second annual vogue ball for trans incarcerees. “So many ballroom legends and icons have passed through Rikers Island,” notes Jordyn Jay, founder of Black Trans Femmes in the Arts (BTFA), which organized the ball. “I think we came in with the intention of bringing joy and excitement to the women who were detained.” Few things seemed as top of mind this year as weight-loss drugs like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro. Samhita Mukhopadhyay spoke to fat activist and author Virgie Tovar about how America’s fatphobic culture removes the freedom of choice to lose weight or not. “What amazes me is there are a million potential health interventions available to human beings, but no one sees any of those,” Tovar says. “Weight loss is the only solution we’re comfortable with.” Comedian and seminary dropout Bailey Wayne Hundl unpacks the United Methodist Church’s landmark decision to allow LGBTQ+ parishioners to become ordained ministers. “I never thought this change would come in my lifetime,” Hundl writes. ![]() The loudest rap beef of the year was brimming with what music critic Julianne Escobedo Shepherd called “the expendability of women’s trauma.” In an in-depth analysis of the feud and fans’ responses to it, she peels back the layers to show us who really loses when two grown men decide to squabble in public. Tamara Costa had a partial molar pregnancy and needed an immediate abortion. But all she got was a sticky note with the phone number of a clinic 580 miles away from her home. As part of our United States of Abortion series, this film by Amy Elliott and story by Julianne Escobedo Shepherd show how one state’s severe laws punish families in terrifying health situations. In the wake of the 2024 election, reporter Megan Carpentier knew who she wanted to ask for advice: activists who have lived under (and resisted) authoritarian regimes around the world, from Hungary to Turkey. ![]() And a Few of Our Favorite Podcast Episodes…“We Did Not Consent to Chaos” (UNDISTRACTED) Just 36 hours after Americans re-elected Donald Trump, Brittany Packnett Cunningham sat down with the people she most wanted to process this with: group chat regulars Dr. Brittney Cooper and Dr. David J. Johns. This is a conversation of righteous rage, deep disappointment, and total honesty. Worth a first and second listen. Rutgers Women’s Basketball & the Racist Radio Host (In Retrospect) In this award-winning two-part special, hosts Susie Banikarim and Jessica Bennett revisit the story of the 2007 Rutgers women’s basketball team—which made it to the finals of the NCAA championship, only to be met with racist vitriol from popular radio host Don Imus. But the Scarlet Knights pushed back—and one of them shares her personal reflections here. Love Abortion? Don’t Talk to the Cops! (The A-Files) All around the country, people have been arrested and criminalized for trying to access abortion care. In this episode, hosts Renee Bracey Sherman and Regina Mahone talk to Rafa Kidvai of the Repro Legal Defense Fund about that reality, and some surprising rules for responding to legal threats. Worth a re-listen, as cases like this mount. Debating Trans Rights? Maybe Talk to Trans People…with Laverne Cox (America, Who Hurt You?) Enjoy our work? We hope that you’ll consider supporting media made by and for women, girls, and nonbinary people, via The Meteor Fund. There’s one week left in our impact drive, and at this particular moment in time—when we know how important independent journalism is—we’d love to count you in. You can learn more about The Meteor Fund and donate here. ![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays. Ideas? Feedback? Requests? Tell us what you think at [email protected]
|
Let's Get Cozy!
Our comfort watches and reads to get you through the holidays
![]() December 20, 2024 Happy holidays, Meteor readers, We hope you’re getting ready to wind down and spend time with your family or—if you’re super-lucky—with yourself. I didn’t realize until I had a child that the greatest gift is personal space, so I wish that for all of you this season. And if you’re looking for something engrossing for your me time, and need a break from the news-cycle nightmare that has been 2024, we have suggestions. Here, Meteor staffers and contributors share the pieces of media that have been their comfort touchstone throughout this year. The rules? Nothing too serious, and definitely no politics. We hope our binges and obsessions get you through the week! Wrapped in a blanket, Shannon Melero ![]() A wacky network dramedy: Dr. Odyssey![]() (VIA ABC) As the year progressed I required an increasingly smoother brain, and so it was a relief when Dr. Odyssey debuted in September on ABC. Essentially Grey's Anatomy meets The Love Boat, it was as risqué and madcap as an hourlong dramedy could achieve on a network, following a hot new cruise ship doctor (Joshua Jackson) trying to integrate with the existing medical team (Phillipa Soo, Sean Teale) and a stately captain (Don Johnson) who is always trying to fend off a rotating cast of suitors, from Shania Twain to Gina Gershon. Each voyage (and episode) is defined by a particular cruise theme—which opens the door for a slew of great Love Boat-esque guest stars, like Kate Berlant and Margaret Cho as dueling wellness influencers, and Bob the Drag Queen as entertainment for the Gay Week cruise (with John Stamos and Cheyenne Jackson as lovers who have opened up to a third). Dr. Odyssey sneaks in social commentary on topics like climate change, queer rights, and feminist agency amid tense operating room drama and steamy romance plotlines—there is more than one throuple brewing here—but it neither preaches nor condescends, and is the rare show on network television that doesn't glorify cops, ops, or killing. Soothing like a warm bath. —Julianne Escobedo Shepherd, contributing editor An offbeat, absorbing romance novel: Seven Days in June2024 was the year I got into romance novels, and my absolute favorite was Tia Williams’ Seven Days in June. The book follows Eva Mercy, whose erotica series has throngs of fans but no highbrow cache, and Shane Hall, an elusive author whose literary novels have gotten worldwide acclaim. After an explosive fling in high school, they reunite 15 years later, and—no surprise—the chemistry still sizzles. This is not one of the sunnier novels I read (it deals with some very, very dark teen angst and a Black woman’s generational trauma). But the sexual tension it offers, the level of investment I felt, its triumphant, multi-layered happy ending — all unparalleled. And beyond the steamy love story, I just adored Eva’s artist journey; I couldn’t wait for her to embark on the book she was destined to write. You’ll start Seven Days in June and not look up until you’re done. A great one to read in one-to-three sittings during the dead week of December. —Nona Willis Aronowitz, contributing editor The wonderful world of “cozy content”This year I learned about a special section of the internet devoted only to coziness. Think small farms and baby cows, rainy walks through Edinburgh, and knitwear. Lots of knitwear. As a knitter myself, I first fell into this rabbit hole looking for inspiration and now after months in the cozyverse I’ve sent about 3457934 DMs to my bestie Jenan (yes the Jenan) about the farm we’re starting with our children that will include donkeys, runner ducks, and alpacas for me only. Oh! And a shed for Bailey who sent in a formal request to live on the farm and teach the animals drag. —Shannon Melero, newsletter editor A messy (and historic) season of reality TV: Are You the One?God, I love bisexuals. If you haven’t seen season eight of MTV’s Are You the One?, let me break it down for you: 16 absurdly attractive singles get put in a house together, and they’re told that “relationship experts” (see: producers) have found their perfect match. If they can correctly identify the eight romantic pairings, they win a million dollars. And what makes season eight so special, you ask? For the first time in American reality television, everyone on cast is bi, pan, or otherwise sexually fluid. This season has all of my favorite things: Fighting. Fivesomes. Glitter. A Gemini who never shuts up. Not one, but two trans cast members! Genuinely, this season is one of my favorite pieces of trans representation across any media. Too often, I feel like when something contains trans characters, the people who wrote it ally a bit too close to the sun and depict us as these infallible deities. Season eight of Are You the One? shows that trans people can be insecure, cocky, manipulative, hammered, sexually desirable, emotionally unavailable—you know, human. Everyone on this show is so incredibly human and so incredibly queer. I cannot recommend it enough. —Bailey Wayne Hundl, copy editor A quiet tearjerker from the heartland: Somebody SomewhereI’ve spent the last few weeks bingeing Somebody Somewhere, an HBO series that tells the story of Sam—the magnetic, multitalented Bridget Everett—returning to her hometown in Kansas to care for her dying sister. The series starts a year after her sister has died, as Sam is struggling to rebuild her life. Somebody Somewhere is heartwarming and darkly funny, but also diverse in its view of the hopes and dreams of people outside of major cities. The location gives humanity to everyone from the church-going gay couple to the girlboss sister to the trans agriculture professor helping Sam’s dad figure out what to do with his land—a subtle reminder that exit polls and voting behavior don’t fully express the diversity of our experiences or connections. The show is feelgood, but you will likely cry during every episode. —Samhita Mukhopadhyay, collective member A blockbuster with heart (and Denzel): FlightThere is no reason whatsoever for this movie to bring me comfort, especially as someone who hates flying, but every time I rewatch the 2012 movie Flight, I feel better. Or maybe it’s just that it makes me feel at all. At first glance, Flight is a fairly formulaic Hollywood movie with a heroic redemption arc. What I see in it, though, is a trust-fall into near-Shakespearean depths of emotion that is less about redemption than humanity. Flight is about a cocky commercial airline pilot—Denzel Washington in an arresting performance that is somehow both sexy and pathetic—who pulls off a truly miraculous crash-landing in a plane that is hurtling toward the ground after a mechanical malfunction. Denzel is a great actor, full stop. As Captain Whip Whittaker, he is transcendent. The way he moves in and out of such a vast range of emotions, so that we can see the obvious ones (a satisfied swagger) and sense the not-so-obvious ones (the glassy-eyed grief over losing someone he didn’t love, but he knows was loved by others), is truly sublime. I watched it again last week, and was reminded of one quietly prophetic detail in Denzel’s performance: Early on in the film, Whip and his co-pilot are in the cockpit meeting for the first time, ahead of their fateful flight. “Ten turns in the three days. Off tomorrow,” Whip says, lingering on the end of “tomorrow,” with an understated smile. —Rebecca Carroll, editor-at-large ![]() ENJOY MORE OF THE METEOR Thanks for reading the Saturday Send. Got this from a friend? Don’t forget to sign up for The Meteor’s flagship newsletter, sent on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
Gisèle Pelicot Is Extraordinary
![]() December 19, 2024 Greetings, Meteor readers, This Saturday marks the hibernal/winter solstice, making it the shortest day of the year. Not to get all woo-woo on y’all, but it is a great time to do a little gratitude practice and set your intentions for the upcoming season. So have a feast, take a nice hike, brew some mulled cider in your cauldron, and look inward. ![]() In today’s newsletter, we consider the outcome of France’s horrifying rape case. Plus weekend reading, and if you haven’t checked it out already, another chance to fill out our reader survey! Bracing for the cold, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONGisèle Pelicot and the “unrecognized” victims: Today, the final verdicts came down in France’s Pelicot rape case. A brief and brutal synopsis: Over the course of ten years, Gisèle Pelicot was drugged and raped by a man she’d been married to for five decades, Dominique Pelicot, along with dozens of men whom he invited into their shared home to rape her while she was unconscious. He also filmed and took pictures of the assaults. In total, 51 men, Dominique included, were convicted of rape, attempted rape, or aggravated sexual assault, with prison sentences ranging from three to 20 years. Throughout all of this, Gisèle Pelicot has been vocal about having her story told and shifting the sense of shame from victims to perpetrators. She waived her right to anonymity and welcomed the press into the courtroom—both of which surprised many, given the horrific nature of the case. “By making this trial public from Sept. 2, I wanted for society to be able to take up the debates that followed,” Pelicot told the French press. “I have never regretted that decision.” ![]() SUPPORTERS OUTSIDE OF THE COURTHOUSE WHERE THE TRIAL WAS HELD. ONE MAN HOLDS A SIGN THAT READS "THANK YOU FOR YOUR COURAGE GISÈLE PELICOT. (VIA GETTY IMAGES) Those debates are numerous. What could justice look like in this situation? Will anything be done to address faulty policy and rape culture in (and outside) France? Could no one have intervened earlier, while the men were planning their attacks online or when Gisèle Pelicot went to various doctors for mysterious symptoms? These are crucial questions, and don’t stop mattering with this verdict; lawmakers and reporters should keep following them even once the hero at the center of this trial recedes into her well-deserved privacy. And there’s another question we cannot avoid revisiting: What kinds of victims deserve support? Ideally, the answer should be all victims. In her remarks after the verdict, Pelicot herself acknowledged this: “I think of the victims, unrecognized, whose stories often remain hidden,” she said. But many women who come forward are ignored, belittled, publicly mocked, blamed, and shamed back into silence. Pelicot has been rightly lauded as a hero for pursuing a criminal case against these men—but she, of course, ticks all the boxes of what we expect a “good woman” to be. She is a loving mother and grandmother, she’s older (a nice word the media uses to imply “not sexy or enticing to attackers”), and her trial had the golden egg of evidence: video recordings. We still live in a society that in its deepest heart believes that “good women” should not be raped and that those who are were probably asking for it. As Pelicot repeatedly reminded us: The only person to shame and blame for a rape, is the rapist—point blank period. AND:
![]() WEEKEND READING 📚On a lifetime of silence: Earlier this year, Andrea Skinner, the daughter of late writer Alice Munro, revealed that she had been assaulted by Munro’s second husband—and that Munro knew. Skinner was forced to be silent for years. Why did her mother betray her? (New York Times Magazine) On more AI dangers: Tech companies pushing AI are also planning to build new gas power plants and pipelines to support the growing energy demands of AI. This is literally what they were asked not to do. (Heated) On criminalizing pregnancy: A prosecutor in Mississippi had been threatening pregnant drug users with 20-year sentences in the hope that it would force the mothers to get sober. He had no idea that the majority of these women had ended up in prison—until one woman, Brandy Moore, fought the charges against her. (The Marshall Project/Mississippi Today) ![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
How Safe are Abortion Providers in Blue States?
![]() December 17, 2024 Darling Meteor readers, Way back in February, I started baking my own bread at home because the closest supermarket was charging $6 a boule, and that just felt criminal. I swore up, down, and around, however, that I would not do sourdough—too complicated. I’m sure you see where this is going. I’m now two days into making my own sourdough starter and this gloopy substance has become my fourth child (after my two dogs and one human). If any of you bread masters have guidance, step forward. In today’s newsletter, we’re untangling the complexities of an anti-abortion lawsuit out of Texas. Plus, some updates in the sports world. My starter runneth over, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONThe abortion battle to come: Last week, as you may have heard, the state of Texas filed a lawsuit against Margaret Daley Carpenter, M.D., a New York-based doctor and co-founder of the Abortion Coalition for Telemedicine, alleging that Dr. Carpenter had mailed abortion pills to a patient in Texas. Texas, of course, has a total abortion ban, but New York has a “shield law” meant to protect doctors who help out-of-state patients. Which law supersedes the other? Well, it’s complicated. The shield law protects providers from out-of-state criminal investigations or prosecution (among other things). But Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton is not pursuing a criminal case against Dr. Carpenter; instead, he wants to hit her with a $250,000 fine for practicing medicine without a Texas license and violating the state’s abortion ban. The New York shield law does address civil liability protection—specifically, it gives doctors a right to “protection against application of another state’s law in New York State court” and a “claw back lawsuit” option to reclaim any monetary damages incurred while fighting a charge brought for providing healthcare that is lawful in New York. But the suit is being filed in Texas, meaning that that first provision may not help Dr. Carpenter if this goes to trial. Texas’ legal code also states that a doctor cannot provide telehealth services to Texas residents without a license to practice medicine in the state. So, on the surface, it would seem that Texas has a slam dunk on its hands. Not entirely. Even if Texas wins the suit, experts don’t see a clear path for the state to enforce the judgment. But it’s not just about the money. There’s a wrinkle in this case that gives a hint of Paxton’s long game: Texas’s petition includes details about the man who impregnated the patient (we’ll call him John Doe). According to the petition, he only found out she was pregnant after he had driven her to the hospital to treat severe bleeding. Upon being told she had been nine weeks pregnant, John Doe “concluded” that the woman “intentionally withheld information from him regarding her pregnancy” and assumed she had done something to abort the pregnancy. He returned to the woman’s residence and found packaging for mifepristone and misoprostol. As law professor Mary Ziegler explains in Slate, this first-of-its-kind lawsuit may be trying to lay the groundwork for more cases involving male partners:
Are you following? Anti-abortion groups hope that men will sue over the “wrongful death” of fetuses they had a hand in creating. And in repeatedly referring to John Doe as the “biological father of the unborn child,” Texas may be trying to establish a legal precedent for those rights. To be clear, it’s not specified in the petition whether or not John Doe himself turned his partner in; he’s also not filing a wrongful death suit, and in the event Dr. Carpenter is made to pay a fine, John Doe would not be legally entitled to any of it. Still, a win here could signal to anti-abortion men that they now have the power to do something to gum up the works of telemedicine by telling Big Brother what their girlfriends are getting in the mail. And that will cost doctors, patients, and pregnant people in need a lot more than $250,000. AND:
![]() IMAGE VIA THE DEBT COLLECTIVE INSTAGRAM (PHOTO BY JULIAN THOMAS)
![]() LOCKER ROOM TALK 🏀 🏀 ⚽A fun safe space for our fellow women's sports fanatics
![]() Hey! If you've read this far you must really like us. We really like you too! So much that we want to know what you think. Please consider filling out this survey to let us know how we can better support The Meteor community. FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
She Called Journalists "Monsters"and Liars
![]() December 12, 2024 Hey there, Meteor readers, We are entering that special time of the year I like to call The Vortex, where time is meaningless and we are all just hauling ourselves across various finish lines. But before we fully get sucked in, I’ve got a special request. Please consider taking a few minutes to fill out this survey so we at The Meteor can better serve you. We want to continue building this community, and we can’t do that without you. Our suggestion box is fully open! In today’s newsletter, we turn to Trump’s latest hire. Plus, your weekend reading list. With appreciation, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONAnother one: Yes, we are talking about yet another questionable Trump appointee, but this one hits uncomfortably close to home for those of us who work in media. Yesterday, Donald Trump announced that he’d nominated former news anchor, election denier, and known hater of the free press Kari Lake to be the new head of Voice of America. A little refresher on VOA: It’s a federally funded international news provider that reaches more than 300 million people. Congress gives VOA $300 million a year, a sum Kari Lake would be responsible for managing despite her calls in 2022 to defund the media. The entire mission of VOA is to provide unbiased, fact-forward news and the organization even has a “firewall” rule which “prohibits interference by any U.S. government official in the objective, independent reporting of news.” This won’t be the first time a Trump loyalist has been given power over VOA. In 2020, Trump put one of his cronies, Michael Pack, in charge of the U.S. Agency for Global Media, which oversees VOA, and a judge found that he’d violated the First Amendment rights of VOA journalists and employees by attempting to censor and retaliate against those he deemed “insufficiently supportive of President Trump.” This time, we’ve got a woman who knowingly spreads disinformation and refers to journalists as “monsters,” a Republican-controlled Congress, and a news organization that relies on both journalists and Congress to function. What could possibly go wrong? Well, in the absolute worst-case scenario: You could end up with government-funded media that is loyal not to facts, but to one man’s agenda of revenge. That leaves the door open for worsening levels of misinformation that could border on propaganda. I hate to throw around that P word, but it’s gravely concerning that someone with such disdain for the truth could be given this much power over the telling of it. AND:
![]() WEEKEND READING 📚On a growing movement: No one thought Puerto Rico’s Alliance coalition could win the election. But more than a hundred years of history points to exactly why their candidate, Juan Dalmau, came so close. (Truthout) On the other property brothers: Three brothers, two of whom were luxury real estate brokers, were arrested for their roles in a 14-year-long sex trafficking scheme. Their story is so heinous, it reads like an implausible horror film. (New York Times) On money and menopause: Millennial women are entering perimenopause in droves, and a new wave of health-adjacent companies are taking notice. In Retrospect co-host Jessica Bennett dives into what’s real and what’s a scam. (The Cut) ![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|
Could Trump End Birthright Citizenship?
![]() December 10, 2024 Greetings, Meteor readers, My child recently learned the words to “Jingle Bells,” and while she cannot fully pronounce all of them, I’ve now heard that song more times than “All I Want for Christmas Is You.” Send earmuffs. In today’s newsletter, we take a look at the latest news on what’s ahead for migrants. Plus, actress and playwright Danai Gurira on the backlash to women’s rights on the African continent. Changing the station, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONA semblance of a plan: When the news broke that Donald Trump had won re-election, I reached out to my mentor, Julianne Escobedo Shepherd, and asked, “Did they tell you what time your group is getting deported? I’m in group C.” We laughed. After all, if the end is nigh, you cannot spend all your time suffering about suffering. But beneath the jokes, the memes, and the exhaustion, there is still a big question: Can Trump do all the things he wants to do? When it comes to immigration, it certainly seems like he’s going to try—and fast. Over the weekend in a “Meet the Press” interview, Trump reaffirmed his commitment to mass deportation, stating he would “absolutely” end birthright citizenship. “I don’t want to be breaking up families,” he said. (Really?) “So the only way you don’t break up the family is you keep them together and you have to send them all back, even kids who are here legally.” Because of the 14th Amendment—which does a few things including granting citizenship to anyone born on U.S. soil—Trump cannot make good on his threat by himself, but that doesn’t mean it’s an impossibility. As reporter Isabela Dias explains in Mother Jones, Trump and his allies could “resort to the far-fetched claim that large migrant flows to the US-Mexico border constitute an ‘invasion’ of the United States and, therefore, the children of unauthorized immigrants should be excluded from the 14th Amendment’s guarantee of birthright citizenship.” That idea might seem implausible, especially when even Republicans are divided on mass deportation (as demonstrated by today’s Senate Judiciary Committee hearings). But we are living in implausible times. If the president thinks the 14th Amendment is up for debate—and let me remind you that the amendment’s equal protection clause is literally being debated before SCOTUS—there’s no telling how far he’ll go to get his way. And when the “them” he’s targeting starts to look like everyone, what will be the line in the sand? AND:
![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend? Subscribe using their share code or sign up for your own copy, sent Tuesdays and Thursdays.
|