Are women really being “coerced” into abortions?
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Today, we’re teaming up with Jessica Valenti—friend of The Meteor and founder of Abortion, Every Day—on a fresh series of videos demystifying anti-abortion speak. Plus, a history-making governorship begins, and a little bit of justice for Tylenol.
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WHAT'S GOING ON
Who’s coercing whom?: How does the term “coerced abortions” make you feel? Sounds horrible, right? Perhaps something an abusive parent or boyfriend would perpetrate against a vulnerable woman? The phrase—crafted to elicit this precise reaction—is the latest bit of lingo anti-abortion extremists are using to make Americans think that abortion hurts women. If it sounds familiar, you may have encountered it in Republican talking points, lawsuits and state laws—or heard conservatives like Sen. Bill Cassidy (R.-La.) and Louisiana Attorney General Liz Murrill mention it just last week during a Senate hearing meant to discredit abortion pills. The pills, Cassidy claimed, go “straight to [an abuser’s] mailbox, no questions asked, and then they coerce the woman to take it … Think of the women, the girls in abusive relationships, being trafficked whose voice is being silent.”

OME ANTI-CHOICE PROTESTERS IN 2022 WIELDING THE LANGUAGE OF COERCION. (CREDIT: GETTY IMAGES)
Again: Sounds awful. But in a new edition of our series Anti-Abortion Glossary—in which Abortion, Every Day’s Jessica Valenti unpacks the misleading, misogynist terms used by the anti-abortion movement—Valenti explains that this kind of rhetoric is being specifically used to target doctors who provide abortion medication, or, as in one Louisiana case, a mother who helped her teenage daughter obtain abortion care.
To be clear, some abusers absolutely do force their partners to end a pregnancy. But in a post-Roe world, it is vastly more common that women will be coerced into continuing a pregnancy—either by an abusive partner, or, in the case of abortion bans, by the state itself. In fact, a study from the National Bureau of Economic Research found that abortion bans worsen intimate partner violence by as much as 10 percent. And sometimes, the government helps: in one case out of Texas, police used 83,000 cameras to track down an abortion patient because her abuser turned her in.
So why are conservatives so obsessed with “abortion coercion” when forced pregnancy is a far greater problem? Valenti’s reporting found that in 2023, anti-abortion leaders pinpointed “coercion” as their most effective tool to justify abortion bans—which, after all, are deeply unpopular with most Americans. “The new Republican message must be clear. No woman should ever be subjected to an unwanted abortion,” advised David Reardon of Susan B. Anthony Pro-Life America in an opinion piece for The Hill. Valenti sees right through this strategy. “They figured that pretending to care about coercion might make it seem like their laws are protecting women,” Valenti says. “They’re not.”
New episodes of Anti-Abortion Glossary will be dropping every Tuesday on Instagram. Watch here:
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- Speaking of Arctic blasts: Thousands of Greenlanders (a number that constitutes a major chunk of the country’s population) marched in the streets on Saturday to protest Trump’s threat of invading the country. Among the protesters was Tillie Martinussen, a former member of parliament, who’s called the U.S. “greedy” and accused Trump of surrounding himself with “white power people.” The American government “started out as sort of touting themselves as [Greenland’s] friends and allies,” she told EuroNews at the protest. "And now they're just plain out threatening us.”

GREENLANDERS TURNED OUT ON SATURDAY AGAINST TRUMP’S IMPERIALIST PLANS. (CREDIT: GETTY IMAGES)
- Speaking of Arctic blasts: Thousands of Greenlanders (a number that constitutes a major chunk of the country’s population) marched in the streets on Saturday to protest Trump’s threat of invading the country. Among the protesters was Tillie Martinussen, a former member of parliament, who’s called the U.S. “greedy” and accused Trump of surrounding himself with “white power people.” The American government “started out as sort of touting themselves as [Greenland’s] friends and allies,” she told EuroNews at the protest. "And now they're just plain out threatening us.”
- Virginia’s first woman governor, Democrat and former CIA officer Abigail Spanberger, was sworn in on Saturday, and she made it her first order of business to repeal her predecessor’s order to cooperate with ICE. “We will focus on the security and safety of all our neighbors,” she promised in her inauguration speech. “And in Virginia, our hardworking, law abiding immigrant neighbors will know that…we mean them, too.” Also sworn in: Ghazala Hashmi, Spanberger’s lieutenant governor, who’s the first Muslim woman ever elected to state office.
- A new scientific study published in the medical journal The Lancet should reassure pregnant women that they need not “tough it out,” as our esteemed president
andTrump recently advised: In a review of more than three dozen studies, the researchers found no link between acetaminophen use during pregnancy and autism.maternal health expert - There’s no such thing as too much Magic Mike, as New Yorkers will soon discover.
- Heads up: a new epithet is spreading on the far-right to describe Renee Good and those close to her. Think we’ll take “organized gangs of wine moms,” please and thank you.
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A Brief History of "Post-Birth Abortion"
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Happy Monduesday, Meteor readers, Some of you are lamenting the end of summer, but me? I am already knitting Christmas sweaters for myself and my child. I hope your entry to fall is smoother than the foam on a white woman’s pumpkin-spiced latte. ![]() In today’s newsletter, we discuss the importance of words and their meanings in conversations about abortion. Plus, more from Project 2025 and an unexpected “counterfeit” endorsement for Kamala Harris. Ho, ho, how long are these sweaters going to take, Shannon Melero ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONAnti-abortion glossary: Has the term “post-birth abortion” been cropping up a lot lately on your right-wing uncle’s Facebook posts? It’s been in circulation for years, but the fabricated idea it refers to—that Democrats are passing legislation that allows for abortion even past the moment of delivery—was rejuvenated when Trump mentioned it at a Michigan rally last week. “The real radicals on [abortion] are the Democrats where you can have an abortion in the ninth month,” he said. “And in six states, you’re allowed to kill the baby after the baby is born. And you know, one of those states is Minnesota, where this Tampon Tim comes from.” Trump’s fear-mongering was then parrotted by one of his advisors the next day. To be clear, this charge is absolutely false. It is illegal to kill a living child in all 50 states, and it’s sad that we even have to repeat that. But where did the term “post-birth abortion” come from, and how did it get so popular? As writer Jessica Valenti, founder of Abortion, Every Day, explains in a new Meteor series called Anti-Abortion Glossary, Republicans started tossing the idea around after a disastrous radio interview with former Virginia governor Ralph Northam in 2019. Northam had been asked a hypothetical question about whether or not a woman could abort a pregnancy up to the point of labor, and he responded by offering another (all too real) hypothetical: a child born with extreme “deformities” or prematurely who is unable to survive on their own. In that case, parents would have to decide whether to subject a fatally ill newborn to painful, invasive surgeries or to let them die of natural causes. It’s a nightmare situation, and for some parents, it’s a lived experience. But for GOP pundits, it was political fodder. At the time, Republicans were looking to sink an abortion bill that had just been introduced in Virginia, amending the state’s laws on late-term abortion. Republicans said the bill would legalize infanticide and, especially after Northam’s interview, painted him and other pro-abortion Democrats as “baby killers.” They ground the bill to a halt, turned Northam into a widely shared meme, and made the ridiculous notion of legal infanticide so popular with their base that Ron DeSantis and two women running for office in North Dakota used it. Political doublespeak? No—because "post-birth abortion" exploits the real experiences of the most vulnerable parents and infants for political gain. If the GOP wanted to earnestly talk about what’s killing children in America, perhaps they should look to their gun closets. New episodes of Anti-Abortion Glossary—aimed at dispelling the “infodemic” of abortion disinformation out there right now—coming to you weekly. Watch here: AND:
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