Trans Teens Throw Epic Prom
![]() ![]() May 23, 2023 What’s up, Meteor readers? A hearty hello and good evening to everyone except my friend Brittany who got floor seats to Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour and did not spend the entire concert FaceTiming me. We are through. For today’s newsletter, the category is joy. Not just any joy: the unadulterated, vibrant joy of trans teens, adults, and allies dancing at a trans prom on the National Mall. The Meteor’s Mik Bean spoke to Daniel Trujillo, one of the youth organizers, about what the huge party was like. We’ve got that and some pleasant news out of Minnesota. Best believe I’m still bejeweled, Shannon Melero ![]() ![]() WHAT'S GOING ONThe Little Senate That Could: Who’s ready for some good legislative news for a change? Democratic lawmakers in Minnesota gave us a perfect example yesterday of how to use a majority—no matter how slight. With only a one-seat edge in the Senate, they passed a whopping 884-page packet of sweeping reforms covering everything from abortion to suicide prevention. So strap in, Minnesotans and Minnesotan-adjacents, and let’s find out what Gemini season has gifted you this year:
Seriously, there’s so much in this thing that I’m not even scratching the surface. I’m barely even tickling it. And all this is on top of the other measures this slight majority had already passed this session: They effectively codified Roe v. Wade for the state. They passed a state-run paid family and medical leave program. They created new protections for Uber and Lyft drivers, leading to this too-cute scene celebrating the bill’s chief author. Oh, and weed will be completely legal by August 1; anyone previously convicted of misdemeanor possession will have their record automatically expunged. All that’s left for last night’s “billosaurus” is for Gov. Tim Walz to sign, and he’s spoken very highly of the move. It’s just wild how much of a difference lawmakers can make when they actually fight for the causes they care about. So congrats, Minnesota. Let’s hope the rest of the country can catch up. AND:
![]() CORSAGES AND CUMBERBUNDS“You Don’t Like Me? I’m Gonna Throw a Party in Front of Your Office Window.”Teens gather on the National Mall for Trans Youth PromBY MIK BEAN DON'T YOU WISH YOUR PROM WAS THIS MEANINGFUL? (PHOTO BY KISHA BARI) Yesterday, trans children and teenagers from across the country threw a prom on the National Mall, a youth-led public celebration of trans joy at a time when more and more states are adopting viciously anti-trans legislation. The Meteor’s Mik Bean spoke to Daniel Trujillo, 15, one of the event’s organizers, about the power a little party can have. Mik Bean: Of all the events you could think of to celebrate trans joy, what made you and your friends choose a prom? Daniel Trujillo: It stemmed from a lot of frustration me and other trans youth were feeling from continuously [having our existence debated]—and so publicly, too. Me and Libby [Gonzales] were on a call one day, and we were real angry. I was driving back from our state capitol from having to testify [on anti-trans legislation], and we were like, “What do we want to do about this problem?” And we were saying that we need, like, a joyous event. That's how it snowballed. There’s a lot of anti-trans legislation targeting trans youth in school specifically. We chose prom to be a statement of what schools could be like if trans youth were protected instead of being politicized in this really brutal way. Mik Bean is a writer and editor living online. They cover local politics, legal drama, and anything queer. ![]() ONE MORE THINGDo you have particularly strong feelings about this newsletter? We'd love to know what they are! Tell us absolutely everything by filling out our reader survey. You could win a Meteor tote! ![]() FOLLOW THE METEOR Thank you for reading The Meteor! Got this from a friend?
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"You Don't Like Me? I'm Gonna Throw a Party in Front of Your Office Window."
BY MIK BEAN
On Monday, May 22nd, trans children and teenagers from across the country threw a prom on the National Mall, a youth-led public celebration of trans joy at a time when more and more states are adopting viciously anti-trans legislation. The Meteor’s Mik Bean spoke to Daniel Trujillo, 15, one of the event’s organizers, about the power a little party can have.

Mik Bean: Of all the events you could think of to celebrate trans joy, what made you and your friends choose a prom?
Daniel Trujillo: It stemmed from a lot of frustration me and other trans youth were feeling from continuously [having our existence debated]—and so publicly, too.
Me and Libby [Gonzales] were on a call one day, and we were real angry. I was driving back from our state capitol from having to testify [on anti-trans legislation], and we were like, “What do we want to do about this problem?” And we were saying that we need, like, a joyous event. That's how it snowballed.
There’s a lot of anti-trans legislation targeting trans youth in school specifically. We chose prom to be a statement of what schools could be like if trans youth were protected instead of being politicized in this really brutal way.
I love that it's a party, because the narrative that these transphobic legislators are telling is not a happy one. Are you hoping that holding this prom in a highly visible place like the National Mall will help change the conversation?
A lot of the anti-trans legislators have kids and grandkids of their own. I hope they all have this realization that we’re all kids who are just going to a prom and having fun, and that they see our joy and the commonalities between us [and] their own kids.
Part of me is kind of spiteful. It's like: “Hey, you don't like me, but guess what I'm gonna do? Throw a party right in front of your office window.”
I want the people [attending the event] to have this puzzle-click moment, this realization of: I have a lot of community here, and we might be in a really cruddy time right now, but it's not always gonna be like that. And because we had one really joyous day, I know that the rest of my life can be just as joyous. My parents run a parent support group in Arizona, and there's some younger children who go there who are, like, six, seven, eight years old, and some of them are gonna be at prom. I feel like it's going to be really amazing for them to see this.

What is something all of us can do to make trans youth feel safe and joyful?
The main thing is to always listen to the youth. Create an affirming space by making sure that you're respecting their names and pronouns. And if those ever change, then make it a space where that’s not a big deal. Be really outspoken about your support of trans youth. A lot of people don't know about this movement against us.
Is there a moment you remember where someone did that for you?
Last year in the eighth grade, my history teacher at the start of class passed out a paper that asked: What’s your name? What’s your preferred name? Can I use this in front of your parents? What are your pronouns? Can I use these in front of your parents? Do you want to use this with the whole class or just privately? And even though this is the bare minimum, I was like, “This is so amazing. This is crazy. She's my favorite teacher. I love her so much.”
I love her, too. OK, back to the prom. What’s your number one dance song?
We made a Spotify playlist. I put some absolute bangers on there: “Dancing Queen,” ‘cause that's my song; “I Will Survive”—that's gonna be so fun; “Heroes” by David Bowie. I put Elton John on here. I also got Prince’s “I will Die for You.” That one is for my mom.

Bangers. Tell me about the outfit!
It is a black tuxedo with a white button-up shirt, and then a bowtie. We had to get it tailored because none of the clothes fit me right. But I got it tailored so the pants go above my ankle to show off my socks that say “Lord of the Strings.”

What is the story you want this prom to tell to trans youth about their futures?
That they're gonna be super happy. That they have a lot of community with them who's willing to fight for them. They’ll see this community with older trans people and have this understanding that…they don't need to be held to those statistics about [trans] life expectancy, you know? It's really important for me to have seen myself as a 35-year-old, a 40-year-old, even a 60-year-old. I know that we don't have to amount to those same statistics. We can change that narrative.
Trans youth and their families deserve the respect and dignity as any other family or person. We shouldn't be used as political tools.
The main thing that I would say is that we are heroes. We are beautiful.
Mik Bean is a writer and editor living online. They cover local politics, legal drama, and anything queer.